Here’s a mom memory for you:
Mom sitting in kitchen smoking a cigarette, looking glamorous. Me (age 4) approaches her, watches her smoking cigarette for a few minutes.
me: I wanna touch the tip
mom: don’t touch the tip.
me: I wanna touch it, tho.
mom: don’t touch it
me: but I WANT to
me: PUHLEZZZE I wanna touch ittt
me: (touches tip screams loudly)my finger is on fire!!
Mom: (still smoking) told you not to touch it.